October was a month of change and transitions. For me, it was the end of my
beloved kitty’s journey of 22 years. His soul was ready to go home and although
it saddens me and I am still in the grieving process, Kalisad taught me so much.
In fact, for those who have lost a pet, I highly recommend Alan Cohen’s, “Are
You As Happy As Your Dog” . This little book gave great insights into the animal
kingdom and for that I am grateful…thanks Alan.
During this process of “letting go” I was surrounded by many friends and
supporters which helped me through the tears and devastation. Whether we lose a
pet, a family member or a friend, the loss is real; it is painful and yet it is
not final. The body may be gone; however, the spirit lives on forever and cannot
die nor be destroyed. This fact, in my world, has given me comfort. I think of Kalisad morning and night, I remember his routines as he aged and I speak with
him on a regular basis. I believe that he sends me impressions…thus showing me
just how real his world is.
Since this event in my life, I find myself re-evaluating my perceptions about
those who speak to their deceased loved ones. I no longer question this practice
and I find much interest in another’s story. Communicating on the ethereal level
can be more rewarding than when they were embodied because we are listening with
our heart.
I also believe I am more understanding and accepting on this level called death.
Even though death of the body is absolute; life of the Spirit is just as
absolute; it is permanent and ever a part of the universe…Spirit lives on.
So, if you have lost a friend, a family member or a pet, talk with them; they
will hear you. Allow their presence to be felt; ask them to show you a sign and
then become conscious of what you see and hear. It could be as simple as a
familiar picture, a song on the radio or finding great comfort in sharing your
story.
Giving permission to express yourself will help you find a new freedom in your
heart and believe it or not, a new found peace will expand in your life.
Happy Holidays and many blessings,
Michelene
Michelene K Bell is a freelance writer, editor and publisher of
In Light Times. She enjoys good conversations with friends, loves great
food, going to the movies, traveling, playing games and just having fun.
www.InLightimes.com.
