KP Because we are all One and part of the Creator, I believe that we have the power to do this. But most of us use our personal power to keep from connecting to the Creator or mastering the conditions we place on love. Only after we stop giving away our power can we become fully creative and transform our relationships. We become responsible creators, aware of what we create in our lives through the use of this personal power.

PVQ Loving ourselves, then, is the key to creating attractor patterns that are more loving than destructive. When we change, the world around us changes, and all the other attractor patterns that are in place have to adjust to us, because we are all energetically connected.

KP That’s one of the purposes we have here on earth—to balance all the different collective consciousnesses.

PVQ And we do that through mastering ourselves first?

KP Yes. We learn about love from our parents, and they could only love us as much as they loved themselves. Have we been loved completely? Was our parents’ love ever enough?

PVQ Everyone knows that you can always use more love, Ken. All this talk about attractor patterns make me wonder if I can get the love that I need.

KP If we send love, light, and energy to others when we have not learned to love ourselves unconditionally, we will in return attract what we do not love about ourselves.

PVQ Wow — that’s an amazing concept. So we are simply reaping our lack of love, with no replenishment. We are not only sucking up as much love as we can get from others, they are sucking our love up, too.

KP This is why so many in healing work have damaged nervous systems. They burn out electrically, because people come to them to be "healed" and they give all their energy to that person who comes to them as a "victim." The healer becomes the "savior" and patches up broken people to his own detriment. He takes on the energy of the client. He should learn to release that energy.

PVQ So that’s happening in our relationships too?

KP Yes, that’s why it’s so important for us to learn how to center, balance and clear ourselves. We have no cultural practice of a quiet mind. We need to learn to be fully present in our bodies, and learn how to live in the moment. The moment is the access point for the finest reflection of Source we can be. In the seminar, I teach people how to clear themselves each time they use the bathroom, for example. Anything you do with conscious intent and focus will change your life. I discuss how to do this simple exercise in my book The Way it Works, in Chapter 8.

PVQ So we need to center ourselves in such a way that we are not adversely affected by others mirroring our issues?

KP We need to understand the things that pull us off center and release those issues in our lives. The only place that we can truly change is in the present moment, not in the past or future. Until we realize that we create a series of events to keep us focused on our issues, we continue to subconsciously divert most of our creative energy into drawing the same circumstances and people to ourselves.

PVQ …and stay firmly stuck reliving the past over and over, which robs us of our creative potential and the ability to really love the people in our lives.

KP That’s what the Multidimensional Cellular Healing techniques uncover and integrate in our bodies. We learn this in the workshops. We also learn "Inscension," which is being fully present in our bodies with conscious awareness.

PVQ I feel very comfortable with these concepts, particularly the idea that we attract exactly the type of energy we need for our growth. It’s comforting to know everything is exactly as it should be. It’s also very empowering to know that I can change my attractor patterns through the techniques that you teach in your books and workshops.

KP Remember—it’s important not to give our power away. All our answers are inside us already.

PVQ Your use of simple exercises to clear negative energy seems simplistic—is clearing energy from our clothing and personal items important?

In order to remain energetically healthy, it’s important to bathe and change your clothes at the end of the day, because you have been exposed to highly charged energies. When we speak of clearing energy, we mean both the negative and the positively charged energies. If you go to bed, in the same clothes and unwashed body that came into contact with the outside world, is it any wonder that you don’t have a restful sleep? There is a lot of energy out there that I wouldn’t want to hug or take to bed.

PVQ Ken, what is your believe about soulmates?