Accept The Positive…Evaluate The Negative
DON’T
IGNORE THE STUFF IN-BETWEEN
by Kathleen M. Dickinson, CGA
Among the common comments made to me after I
analyze someone’s handwriting are "Now tell me the bad things" or
"Now tell me the truth". I think that happens for the following
reasons
Many people are not given a lot of constructive
personality information when they are growing up. Therefore, people expect to be
told bad things about themselves.
The reality is, I have told them the
"bad" things and the "truth". The fact is, because the
handwriting analysis has hit home, they do not necessarily hear the ‘bad’
things as bad.
For instance, if you have sarcasm in your writing
and you feel good about being sarcastic then when I tell you that, "you can
be sarcastic", you are not going to hear that as ‘bad’. In actuality
there are various aspects of ‘sarcasm’. If it appears at every opportunity
in a writing it indicates repressed anger, and it can lead to a lot of
miscommunication. If it occurs once in a while, then it can be seen as wit or a
dry sense of humor.
Synthesis is a very important component of a
handwriting analysis. I evaluate all the different things I see and then there
are enhancing qualities such as depth of writing, slant, size of the writing,
margins etc. Lets break down the brief sample shown here.
Notice the size of the writing.
When a person
writes ‘large’ it indicates that they see the big picture all the time. A
person with extra-ordinarily large writing does best when in charge of a project
with a lot of spokes (like an umbrella). That way they can see all the different
aspects of the ‘umbrella’ and accomplish everything in that scope. Notice
the ‘d’s in ‘did’. The first ‘d’ indicates someone who does not want
to beat around the bush, who wants people to be direct with them. The loop in
the second ‘d’ represents "sensitivity to criticism" which means
the person does not always hear compliments they expect to be criticized. If you
know a person with large ‘d’ or ‘t loops it is valuable to get them to
hear the compliment so they do not always expect to be criticized.
The sharp ending of the ‘t’ crossing in ‘not’
shows you what sarcasm looks like in writing. It has a knife look to it. You can
get an idea of the evaluation process when you understand that the person was
probably criticized a lot growing up and the sarcasm became their survival tool.
The breaks between the letters in the word ‘catch’ shows intuition and music
appreciation. The large space between the words ‘catch’ and ‘the shows
personal isolation. Notice how in ‘to’ the t crossing goes back to the left?
This indicates self-castigation. The length of the t crossings represents levels
of enthusiasm and energy. The clean and open circle letters (o, a, d) shows
levels of honesty and talkativeness. The upper loops show the person is
breathing (size and width of loop), has developed a philosophy of life and has
imagination.
From what I have said so far, we know this person
can be a good teacher or presenter (open circle letters, philosophy/imagination
in upper loops), they are sensitive to their surroundings (depth of writing),
they beat themselves up on things so we need to have compassion for them (back
strokes), they are intuitive (breaks within words) and probably benefit from
spending time alone (strokes below the baseline do not return to the baseline),
listening to music. They are energetic and profit from dancing, or doing
physical activities they enjoy (energy in the writing).
Something I always tell my students, is, that one
characteristic does not mean anything by itself. It is important to synthesize
everything that is in the writing i.e., the depth, slant, margins, other
qualities etc. So please do not tell people that you "know" they are
"this" or "that" because of anything you read in a
handwriting analysis article. It is important to study handwriting analysis in
depth to really know all the qualities that go into evaluation.
Kathleen is the founder of Dynamic Impressions
and is a Certified Graphoanalyst who helps bring to light hidden facets of one’s
personality with a goal of optimizing both the personal and professional For
information visit http://www.dynamicimpressions.com
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