
The Sequel’s Not Equal
By Alan Cohen
This is the summer of the sequel. Movie theatres
are glutted with follow-ups to blockbusters of previous years, like Men in Black
2, Austin Powers 3, and Star Wars 5. The business savvy behind a sequel is plain
if the masses paid millions to see the original film, they will flock back and
pay millions more to see the next generation.
The thing about sequels, however, is that they
rarely measure up to the original. Recently I saw American Pie 2 and Scary Movie
2, two films whose ancestors were clever and hilarious. Unfortunately, the
follow-ups suffered from rubber-stamp-itis, and I walked out of the theatre
feeling hungry for the original sparkle.
Like movies, there are two ways to live a life
hiding out in history, or dancing on the cutting edge. History is safe, but
reeks of regularity. The cutting edge seems scary, but it bestows life. You can
copy what has been done, and in some cases you may succeed financially but at
the same time you wither spiritually. Herein lies the challenge and invitation
— to a true creator.
After his original song, Don’t Worry, Be Happy
became a mega-hit in the late 1980’s, singer Bobby McFerrin spent several
years touring the world performing the tune. And he could have gone on, except
for one thing he got bored. "There was no life in performing the song any
more," he admitted. "I was cheating my audiences and myself." So
he stopped. Bobby took a few years off, developed his relationship with his
children, studied with acclaimed cellist Yoyo Ma, and created an entirely new
form of musical expression with an avant-garde group he called "Synchestra."
I saw Bobby perform with Synchestra, and the show was electrifying. Although the
audience waited and hoped to hear McFerrin perform Don’t Worry, Be Happy, he
never did. Way to go, Bobby.
Oprah Winfrey had to walk through the same
initiation. After consistently winning Emmy Awards for her popular talk show for
many years, Oprah decided it was time to take the program to a new level.
"I had to move from a format based on dysfunction to one of
self-actualization." When she told her producers she wanted to found her
material on spiritual growth, they warned that she would lose her audience and
sponsorship. She did it anyway. Now her show is more popular than ever, still
garnering Emmys regularly. More important, Oprah can live with herself.
You can carve a career cranking out cookie-cutter
products, but you cannot carve out a life that way. The only thing more
important than making a living is making a life. Oliver Wendell Holmes suggested
that anyone over age 60 change careers every few years. Why? Newness, challenge,
and exploration bestow life force, and life force keeps us young and healthy.
Unless you keep doing your work newer and better, you are dying in your
profession. If you are not regenerating, you are degenerating.
I often speak at churches on Sunday mornings
where I deliver a talk at each of two or three services. I rarely give the same
talk at each of the services. I tried that once and felt bored. If a speaker
feels bored, the audience doesn’t stand a chance. I heard about one famous
speaker who delivered the same lecture, word for word, wherever he went, for
many years. One morning he showed up at a large church to deliver a sermon to a
thousand eager listeners. He had flown a long distance to get there, and he
arrived minutes before the service. Ten minutes into his talk, the fellow began
to slow down the pace of his lecture, and there grew gaps between his sentences.
Then gaps between his words. Finally there was a long pause that went on for
over 30 seconds. The lecturer fell asleep during his own address! Finally the
resident minister gracefully tapped him on the shoulder. He awoke with a start,
harrumphed, and continued his sermon from the word where he had left off.
The story is told about a young boy walking along
a church corridor with his minister. The boy tugged at the minister’s sleeve
and asked, "Excuse me, Reverend — What are those gold plaques on the wall
with people’s names on them?"
The minister looked down at the child and soberly
told him, "Those are the names of people from our church who died in the
service."
The child thought for a moment and asked,
"Was that the 9 o’clock service or the 11 o’clock service?" Take
care that you do not die while performing your service. Someone asked a famous
minister "What is the secret of your success?" His answer was simple
"I just set myself on fire and people watch me burn." There is new
fire in every day, and if you catch hold of it, you will brighten the lives of
everyone you touch, beginning with your own. The greatest gift you have to offer
is your presence, which you have only when you are present.
This article is based on themes from Alan Cohen’s
new breakthrough bestseller, Why Your Life sucks and What You Can Do About It.
To order it or request a free catalog of Alan’s books, tapes and seminars call
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